There are so many precious gems in the 'Single' season of your life.  You have to hold on to these pearls and be determined to take the lessons and blessings to best prepare you for married life.

So many minutes, hours, and days are wasted groaning and complaining as we ask God, "when God when."  When will my Prince in shining armor arrive?  How much longer O Lord?"  You are not alone and many of us have been there, done that, and got the t-shirt:).

I want to encourage you during this Single Season of Your life to cherish every moment as you deepen your relationship with God and learn as much as you can about being a wife and how to identify a husband so you don't end up with a toad.

In my video, I go even deeper with keys to help you prepare for a blessed marriage.  My heart desire as a woman whose been there as both a Single and Married woman is for All God's Daughter to marry a man of God who will love them as Christ loves the church.  When you find that, o my, you have found some heaven on earth.

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​Today is my "BORN AGAIN" Birthday! At Age 13, After hearing the gospel from my best friend's Auntie: (heaven or hell), I decided that day I wanted no parts of Hell, so Give me Jesus! Back in those days, they were about that "tarry" life strong and to receive the infilling of the Holy Spirit with evidence of speaking in tongues, they would tell you to say "Jesus, Jesus, Jesus....as long as it takes Round 10 in da building:)😆

I went to church that night said the Salvation prayer and I began to tarry, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus (Hallelujah, such a powerful name). I did Not receive the gift of speaking in tongues on that day😉 I can remember like Yesterday, the 2ND DAY of my new birth, Getting off the school bus and two old Mothers in the "very wrong way" mind ya questioning my salvation and telling me I wasn't saved because I didn't speak in tongues. I Still loved those two Mothers and they loved me but they were rough around the edges like me too and yet through Christ, we are made beautiful!

Thank goodness for my Spiritual and "Saved" Mom who understood that Yes, Speaking In Tongues is a powerful gift that you need to accept to have even more spiritual authority on the earth but it's not mandatory for Salvation. I told those Mothers in my 'Confident and Sassy, yet respectful flow,' Yes, I am Saved🥰I know I've been changed!!! 13 y'all and I knew there was a difference in me! HALLELUJAH!HALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH!

Through it all, living through my teen life wanting to have fun like everybody else and yet and still very evident to everyone around me GOD'S HANDS was ALL OVER MY LIFE!

I would call myself "cutting school in high school to go with boys to the beach and ended up preaching.  

Going clubbing with friends and while they drank their beer and wine cooler, I would have me a Mickey Mouse ice cream:) the jokes about that is endless to this day:)

One particular day we were doing our usual but God would add a nice twist!

Catching Rides on our adventures AFTER cutting High school and I ended up Praying at a clinic for a classmate to be healed.

And Right After That, GOD took over my English and had me speaking in tongues for the rest of that day🙂 Yep, the very first time I ever spoke in an unknown language was right after one of my "Skip School" adventures.  I tried to explain it to my best friend and side kick but "I would just speak in tongues, no English words would come out." Period:) God used this encounter to convict my heart.

We headed to visit one of my favorite middle school teachers in the midst of us "skipping High School attendance to go to the beach:) Please don't ask me to make it make sense:)

But Yes, I went in the school closet of my favorite teacher's class and prayed to God repenting and HE allowed me to speak in English Again:).  However, I still did not have the "gift of speaking in tongues," and after that day, I did not speak in tongues again until... 

It would be about 2 years after  I first said "I do" to Jesus.  In 10th grade, every day during my lunch break, I would just go to the restroom to pray, and one day just as easy as eating pie, I started speaking in Tongues while praying as I did every day in school in that bathroom stall.  I was so excited! 

Since that day, I've had the gift of tongues but Most importantly, I received the gift of SALVATION which protected me and delivered me out of a WHOLE Lot of Mess.

God is just so good! If it was not for JESUS, according to statistics with my background of poverty, fatherlessness, running the streets, having my first date at about 14 with a 20+ year old man, along with running away from home with a friend just for fun, failing classes every other semester on purpose because I was too busy to attend classes or to do any homework mind you.  I should have been all kinds of stuff...but JESUS! 

HE made me, though I was still quite crazy at times, a God-loving gal with a passion for wanting to live right even when I struggled in areas.  I was still known from middle school on for encouraging Abstinence and I would loudly and proudly sing songs during my "outdoor school performances" like "You don't have to take your clothes off to have a good time."  Who remember that Song:)   😆

My book and this blog was birth from my passionate relationship with Christ and my desire for ALL to fall in love with Jesus and experience the Best and Realest Love You will ever find. 

"Oh I'm madly in love with You Jesus and thank you for choosing Me!"

WOULD YOU LOVE TO ACCEPT JESUS IN YOUR HEART?  It's a simple prayer:  "Lord Jesus, please forgive me for my sins."  I believe you died on the cross for my sins, was buried, and rose again with all powers in your hands.  Thank you Jesus!  I also pray right now that you will fill me with the Holy Spirit to teach me and to help me grow in living a life of righteousness.  I understand that I don't have to be perfect to come to you.  You accept me now Just as I am and with You, I am going to grow stronger in righteousness and in my relationship with God.  In Jesus Name, I pray, Amen and Amen! " ​ 

Welcome to the family of God, All of Heaven is rejoicing! Please comment below to let me know so I too can Celebrate with you!🥰

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Ladies, is this the sad reality that we are facing? Is it true that there are no honorable men?  The hope of a faithful man of God, is it just a dream?

While reading different researches on the matter, it appears that approximately 60% of men and 45% of women will cheat at some time during their marriage.  In other words, 1 out of every 2.7 marriage, a person cheats.  Wow, this is very high, and honestly, it probably is even higher.

WAIT A MINUTE THOUGH...God promises if we delight ourselves in Him, He will give us the desire of our hearts.  Yes, in Christ, we do have hope and the power to beat the statistics.  I do believe though that we will have to truly be in a place of having a deep abiding relationship with Holy Spirit and at a place where we are lead by God and NOT our flesh.

Women of God, if we get excited with conversations like "oh, he is so cute," and he has a good job, and yada, yada, yada but don't put the MOST EMPHASIS on What is his "proven" character trait over a long period of time, you are increasing the risk of marrying a male who may not be ready for marriage.

Let's make it very clear, a male can be saved for 10 plus years but if he has not allow the purification and sanctification process to take over him, He is usually WORST than A Male Who Don't Even Know God.  Whew chile, you don't want this nightmare.

Women of God, number one, please take the time to create a powerful, loving relationship with God that is so fulfilling that you feel whole and satisfied even as a healthy single woman.  I truly believe the sign of being ready for marriage is when you are no longer desperate for a man.  So let's share honestly in the comments.  Where are you in your relationship with Christ.  Do you just have a crush, or are you in the "honeymoon phase," or are you in that "deep abiding intimate place" where you've went through some storms and the love for God is still there and growing stronger?

​So To Answer the question, No, All Men Don't Cheat.  There are faithful men in the world.  God tells us that the road to righteous living is narrow, and those of us traveling that narrow road best believe that the GOD of the Universe has that Husband traveling that narrow road to meet you too.  Please make sure you stay connected with my ministry so that we can share the lessons and blessings to help each of us grow and receive God's best in every area of our lives!  

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As Paul shared the gospel and demonstrated the power of God, mere men were being convicted to change their lives for the better.  Some of the men were sorcerers and repented and burnt up their idols.  When you transform, it will show in your behavior. You are willing to get rid of the old stuff that's not of God. True transformation brings about change for the better. Talk is cheap Ladies!  We as women must be sure not to get caught up in a guy's "sweet talk!"  Sisters pay attention to that WALK! Does he strut like Jesus?! Is he following after the ways of God?  This is what we Sisters must be observing and watching when Trusting God for HIS best.  So I challenge us in 2020 to also examine our own lives...WHAT DO WE NEED TO GET RID OF IN 2020?
Is it envy? Jealousy? Strife? Unforgiveness? Whatever it is My Sister...LET IT GO!  We are going to Walk in Total Victory in 2020!   

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Sometimes, we can be blinded to our own faults, especially, if deep down inside, we believe the person deserves the treatment that we are giving.  When pain from a broken relationship with a significant other, parents, or friends is not healed, it can harden your heart and blind your vision.

For many, it is difficult to hear what is wrong about them.  Who doesn't like a sincere compliment! However it takes both water and rain along with the tilling of the land to produce much fruit.  In the same way, we as Women after God's own heart must also be humble enough to receive constructive criticism.  Sometimes, the feedback from a person comes during a disagreement and can make it even harder to swallow, even if it's the truth.

I admonish you my dear sister in your quiet time with God to seek if what was said is true, and if so, surrender to God and begin to purposefully work on transformation.  Keep in mind that we will do what we can do (praying, reading the word, and biblical confessions), and GOD will do the rest through embedding change in our souls.

Let's just meditate on this for today.  Think back to a time that someone made an observation about you, and ask God, Is there any area that I still need to surrender. 

PRAYER:  Lord, I am so willing to give it all to you in the name of Yeshua (Christ Jesus)...make me "Brand New!"

Only God's Best For All My Sisters and Brothers In Christ!

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​Today, it is so rare to even hear the word "fornication."  When I was a teenager, I would hear that word all the time. Many churches today seem to overemphasize humanity instead of God's divinity and power to help us to live holy when we wholeheartedly surrender to HIS will and way.

Often time, excuses are made for the sin instead of being determined to win for Jesus in every area of our lives.  Acts 15 spoke about the dissension between some of the Jews and the Apostles about whether or not the Gentiles needed to be circumcised to be saved.  Through Wisdom and the Testimony of Peter, they were able to come to the agreement that the natural circumcision was not needed for their spiritual salvation, Hallelujah!

The apostles did not want to overburden the Gentiles with unnecessary requirements.  The apostles focused on what really mattered like sexual purity and not worshiping idols. Today, I pray that we too will continue to focus on what really matters to God.  Sometimes, we can become so focus on the minor: pursuing our dreams and passions or desire to be married that we forget the major: having a "real" relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus.

Let's take a moment to pray, repent, and refocus our priorities to our first love:

"Dear God, 
Please forgive us for taking our eyes off of you, and putting it on the business of life.  We desire to please you and want to honor your son, our Savior Jesus in all that we do.

Holy Spirit, our teacher and our guide, please help us to keep God first in the name of Christ Jesus, we pray, Amen and Amen! 

​QUESTION OF THE DAY: Is there an area in Your Life that you feel is out of priority?  This Video also touches on the beauty of Keeping God First with practical applications of how we can carry this out in our every day lives!  Love you Queen and God loves you Best!  

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The Purity walk can be trying at times and yet, it is possible with the help of our friend Precious Holy Spirit. A few key points that will help you to thrive in your Purity Walk are: 
1.  Daily commune deeply with God through reading the word, worshipping, and sitting quietly before Him.

2. Secondly ‘only date in Public” and don’t put yourself in a compromising position of being “home alone.” A big no no and especially as the emotional intimacy grows between the two of you.

​3. Thirdly, treat him ONLY like your brother in Christ unless you two become husband and wife. Giving “marital” privileges when the two of you have Not said “I do” is a fast set up to heartbreak both emotionally and could cost you physically.

4. Lastly, date a gentleman that is also in love with Christ and is practicing abstinence until Marriage. This way, you both can help each other be accountable. I also share in more details some of my personal struggles and life lessons on my channel to encourage Saved and Single Women to wait for God’s Best! Take A Moment to Enjoy My Video: Learn the Lessons and Secure More Blessings in Life And Love!

​QUESTION OF THE DAY: What's One Other Tip That has helped you in your Purity walk?

MY THOUGHTS ON CURRENT TOPIC OF WOMEN DESIRING MALES' ATTENTION WHILE MARRIED:
​I believe a married woman's desire for male attention outside of her marriage indicates there is a deeper need for "INSIDE WORK" where perhaps one needs to develop more self-validation and finding fulfillment in a deeper relationship with Christ.

Honestly, I am currently not in that position of being married to a famous person, and really never had those specific challenges that go along with it. Remember the "hammer"pants era? Yes, I loved to wear them in an effort to get less attention, but my male classmates were a mess and they would harass me every day at lunch time just to be funny while I attempted to walk backwards down the hallway. 

But I get it though, that we all have a natural want to be desired to a certain extent. As we mature though, I would hope that we would place more emphasis on what's most important, and learn how to get our deeper needs fulfill in a healthy relationship with God, Self, and if you are married, your significant other.

A PRAYER FOR INNER HEALING:
Dear God, please fill any holes in my soul with your unconditional love.  Help me to feel so secure in your arms and in your love that I know You are more than enough for me. Any other love and healthy attention, I receive is just my cup overflowing with goodness.  I AM ENOUGH IN JESUS. I AM WHOLE LACKING NO GOOD THING.  I GIVE LOVE AND SHOW COMPASSION TO MYSELF DAILY.

IN THE NAME OF CHRIST JESUS!

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Dear Sister, I sure would have liked to learn this lesson a long time ago.  I hope my "Single Sisters" listen up and more importantly "Wise UP."  There is a distinct difference between a healthy, mature man and the facade (a male masking his issues with sex, drugs, church, and whatever vices he can find).  Stay Woke! He is emotionally unavailable, not dependable, doesn't keep his words, speaks to people disrespectfully....and listen up because soon that will be him talking to you!  Are you having to teach him things that he should have learned in his parent's home like how to be respectful and how to set boundaries as a father?  Girl, he may be a CLIENT but he sure ain't ready to be your man.  Direct your brother to get the help he needs, and don't dare get into a relationship with someone who is still trapped in a 13 year old mind. 

Dear Sister...I pray to GOD that you marry a MAN of GOD and not an immature boy and the ones In Church pretending to be a man, trust, they are the worst...Be Woke My Sister In Christ!!!
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 K. Michelle -Can't Raise A Man #Facts and I sure don't want too!

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"You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do?
You wonder why he acts like a boy
It's 'cause he wasn't raised right before you
Girl, you ain't never gonna change nobody
If he don't wanna, you can't make nobody
'Cause you can't raise a man, no, no"