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Number One Sign of A Godly Man! How Important is this sign to you?

3/3/2011

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What’s up and blessings to all of you!  This week let’s talk about the 3 Signs of A Godly man!  Brothers, don’t be afraid to share your input!  This post will start with
number 1!!!

#1 Sign of A Godly Man:
 
His pants is zipped tight, waiting for his wife!!! 

That’s right; A man of God who is serious about his walk with God is not playing the hokey doke and violating himself with a woman that is not his wife.  I’ve been blessed to meet a few brothers who have a strong moral conviction about abstinence.  In fact, I married one (my husband).  When my husband and I met, he had started practicing for more than 2 years.  I could tell by the way he carried himself and interacted with me that he was serious about his Godly purity.

In a sex crazed world that tries to define a man by the number of women that he sleeps with or the type of car that he drives, this purity quality can be a rare gem to find (but God always has a remnant).  Let’s get real here!  Sex doesn’t make anyone a man (even cats and dogs mate.) The point is a true sign of manhood is the development of self-control, restraint, and learning how to make wise decisions.  Any boy can be a male!  It will take the grace of God to make a boy into a Godly man of virtue!

Yep, remember Sisters, the man of God that’s ready to become a husband will not be begging you for sex, he will join you in resisting and overcoming temptation and saying No, we need to wait until we are married.  Let me clarify, it's natural for a heterosexual male to feel a longing and desire for a woman.  We are not dead, but we are focusing on how to have Godly self-control over temptation.  Remember, if you marry someone who never conquered his flesh to wait to have sex, you could be setting yourself up for a serious heartache down the road.  Just keeping it real!  Blessings to all God’s Princesses and Princes!!! 

Is it important to date a Christian man
that practices celibacy?
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Meg
3/10/2011 06:14:55 am

It really is hard saving yourself sometimes but when I look around at all of the young women around me that could have saved so much hassle in their lives by waiting for the right man to come, it's not so hard to wait anymore. I love God with all my heart and I remind myself that the reason He's advised us to wait for marriage is to save US from the heartbreak. I believe the ultimate sign of a Godly man is how he treats the women in his life. Of course we don't want a man that's totally attached to his mom but if he treats her with respect, it's almost a sure sign that he'll treat me with respect. Of course as it's already been stated, if he really loves and cares for me but most importantly, the word of God, he'll wait until we're married for sex. Sex is ordained by God but only for those who've made the committment in the sight of Him to stay committed. A man that is willing to honor that committment is one that I'd definitely consider for a spouse. Being young and single, it can frustrating when it seems like the right person just won't come your way but when we rush into things because we're impatient is when we find ourselves in regret and disappointment. After all, Isaiah 40:31 does say "they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up on wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary and they shall walk and not faint." And Proverbs 31:10-11 says: "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil." In summary, those verses teach us that if we are patient and just wait for the Lord to bring our desires (a mate specifically in this case) to pass then even when we feel like we're at wits end, he'll strengthen us and keep us (saving ourselves for marriage) and my favorite lesson in Proverbs 31 is that even in today's time, a man will look for a woman that is "untouched" and someone he can trust not to share what he's purchased with everyone else. Be strong in the Lord and be blessed!

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Jeannine link
3/10/2011 06:18:20 am

Go ahead powerful and mighty young woman of God! I'm glad to know you personally! You are a light to your generation! Shine on, Shine on, God's Princess!

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Stanshaw link
3/12/2011 01:19:09 am

A Godly man produces evidence, the fruit or end result of an intimate relationship with God. Love is a choice and a man committed to such love will do so willingly each day to the one he vowed. What is in you will always shine as light so if God be in the man then his attributes will inevitably reveal themselves. And as the love of God is in the man so shall that love too inevitably reveal itself. Wisdom, insight...is the principal thing. God bless.

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Mercedes
6/26/2012 04:36:28 am

Thank you for your words of hope I am a new born christian have been thanks to Lords anionting I know He has sent me the holy spirit the only thing is I live in Miami and not upstate where men tend to be more God fearing. It has been hard for me for the past five years to find someone who is practicing ,loving and godly person who takes the bible seriously and is future priorities. I am with someone but he is an atheist. i have tried to talk to him and incouraged him to join a real good church. But he told me he is afaird to be with a fanatic. i know am not a fanatic. i find his way childish and unfair not to try. Its a shame because he is not a bad person. He is left handed and a very logical thinker who over analyzes life. which doesnt really mean much because i have a degree in psychology which is a science and still believe in God. I dont beleive in cheating i have never cheated before not even in the past. I feel stuck i have thought of leaving him but it only makes me feel guilty because he is the nicest man i ever met and i turn 34 in there months and want to have children before i turn 38. He already has two boys not teens yet. Please some spiritual advice needed. Should i move from Miami or take my chances and be patient he changes. He has a had a tragic life like me which makes me feel irrational to live him for know wrong reason. i prayed for him the last year and a half but i get no real answers only vague signs which i know the evil one is keeping me confused. I beleive some light and wise insight will do the job. i ahve combed the good news for guidance and have found nothing.

Last chance,your sister in Christ..........Mercy



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Jeannine link
6/28/2012 02:11:44 am

Mercedes, Welcome to the God family! I am so glad you are e-fellowshipping with me. I hear your heart Mercedes, and I totally understand and can relate to what you are going through. At age 33, I was still single and waiting for the Lord. But God did it for me, and I know He will bless you too with an awesome husband.
So you live in Miami! I visit there at least once a year because my husband's father is a bishop at a church out there. So I understand about the atmosphere and the rareness of meeting a genuine Christian man, but nevertheless, you just need one and God has someone for you. So you are dating a potential guy who is very nice, but doesn't have a relationship with God, and you are wondering is he the one? My sister, I know this may be hard to swallow, but when God sends you the person he will be ready and equipped. And I know you are thinking, but maybe he will get saved. This is true, he may give his life to Christ, but as a woman of God, you don't want to invest in this relationship until he's saved. Meantime, you should have yourself available to meet men of God. The bible clearly tells us "not to be unequally yoked" because he knows the danger of those relationships. Think about it, do you want a father for your children that will tell them, there is no God. Scary thought, isn't it? Just trust God, it will come to pass! And you asked about moving and leaving Miami! It's nothing wrong with venturing out and going to a new place. It could be the fresh start that you need. Definitely, find a city with wholesome, young men available to move to! LOL!!!! Yes, you should get active in volunteering in something you like to do! This will prepare your heart and mind to be more God-centered and more attractive to your potential mate. When we women are busy about God's business, He takes care of ours. It's also great to get out with Godly friends and do fun stuff every week. Take a trip out of town to different places and to different events. Live your life to the fullest, and just watch what happens. I pray God strength to help you day by day as you grow in the Lord. Look forward to hearing back from you!

Love ya and be encouraged!

Your Sis in Christ!

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