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Current topic: Married Women Desiring Males' Attention

5/15/2019

MY THOUGHTS ON CURRENT TOPIC OF WOMEN DESIRING MALES' ATTENTION WHILE MARRIED:
I believe a married woman's desire for male attention outside of her marriage indicates there is a deeper need for "INSIDE WORK" where perhaps one needs to develop more self-validation and finding fulfillment in a deeper relationship with Christ.

Honestly, I am currently not in that position of being married to a famous person, and really never had those specific challenges that go along with it. Remember the "hammer"pants era? Yes, I loved to wear them in an effort to get less attention, but my male classmates were a mess and they would harass me every day at lunch time just to be funny while I attempted to walk backwards down the hallway.

But I get it though, that we all have a natural want to be desired to a certain extent. As we mature though, I would hope that we would place more emphasis on what's most important, and learn how to get our deeper needs fulfill in a healthy relationship with God, Self, and if you are married, your significant other.

A PRAYER FOR INNER HEALING:
Dear God, please fill any holes in my soul with your unconditional love. Help me to feel so secure in your arms and in your love that I know You are more than enough for me. Any other love and healthy attention, I receive is just my cup overflowing with goodness. I AM ENOUGH IN JESUS. I AM WHOLE LACKING NO GOOD THING. I GIVE LOVE AND SHOW COMPASSION TO MYSELF DAILY.

IN THE NAME OF CHRIST JESUS!

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You Can't Raise A Man, Nothing But Facts, periodt!

4/23/2019

Dear Sister, I sure would have liked to learn this lesson a long time ago. I hope my "Single Sisters" listen up and more importantly "Wise UP." There is a distinct difference between a healthy, mature man and the facade (a male masking his issues with sex, drugs, church, and whatever vices he can find). Stay Woke! He is emotionally unavailable, not dependable, doesn't keep his words, speaks to people disrespectfully....and listen up because soon that will be him talking to you! Are you having to teach him things that he should have learned in his parent's home like how to be respectful and how to set boundaries as a father? Girl, he may be a CLIENT but he sure ain't ready to be your man. Direct your brother to get the help he needs, and don't dare get into a relationship with someone who is still trapped in a 13 year old mind.

Dear Sister...I pray to GOD that you marry a MAN of GOD and not an immature boy and the ones In Church pretending to be a man, trust, they are the worst...Be Woke My Sister In Christ!!!

K. Michelle -Can't Raise A Man #Facts and I sure don't want too!

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'Cause you can't raise a man, no, no"

Prayer: Help Me Lord to Not Yield to My Flesh

4/13/2019

Dear God, it's not always easy but our desire is to please YOU. Help us to look beyond the flesh and choose to walk in the spirit. We need you every step of the way guiding us and leading us to a place of protection, love, and safety. YOU know what's best for us, and we trust you O GOD, our hope, our strength, our everything. Let us not fall for the trick of this world where wrong is made to look right. It's all a delusion. Let us hold fast to every word YOU speak and Let us choose to follow YOU in Jesus name we pray, Amen and Amen!

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WHEN FEMALES HAVE SEX FOR CLOUT...INSTAGRAM

4/11/2019

Whaaaat? So listening today to a vlog, the young man and lady said if you have a lot of followers, girls are ready to bang down the fella's door. Is this what it has come to? Lord have mercy and help us!

Have we lost our way, and forgotten our value? Honestly, females selling themselves short is nothing new. If we think about it, we have undressed for even less, a fake hug or hello, in an attempt to feel love and valued.

I urge you today to pause and really think about what you are doing when you give up your goods for all kinds of superficial reasons. We did not make ourselves. The CREATOR and not the universe gave us life and a body to value and hold in the utmost regard. The body should be a place for God's spirit to live within and sex is designed for intimacy within a loving marriage.

Gentleman, you are a King and not any and every woman should experience what you bring...it is for your wife. Do you really want someone that sleeps around with anyone to end up being the mother of your child by accident?

Ladies, you are a Queen and what you bring is more than what you give between a sheet. Value yourself for your future King and keep it on lock until you are married with the ring.

I know it's not easy out here in these streets and on the gram. So many Beautiful specimens and temptations at its highest...but with all the diseases, unwanted pregnancies, drama, and more, is it really worth it? What you are really looking for is love and that can be found in the arms of Jesus Christ. When we truly make Him our Lord and Savior, our lives have Purpose and a Passion that will keep us out of other people's sheet and into our Lit and Best Destiny!!!

Please share your comments and feedback. I appreciate open and honest dialogue even if we see things differently. Love and Blessings!

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Today's Prayer

4/9/2019

Dear God, thank you for this awesome day to be in your presence. Help Us O Lord to keep you first in every area of our lives. It's not always easy when we are so busy just trying to survive...but I know you desire so much more for us, your children. Revive us O Lord to walk in all that you destined for us before the beginning of time. We thank you and praise you that great things are happening in our lives. We receive it now in the name of Christ Jesus!

Whew Chile, He Said You A WHOLE SNACK but still Cheats

4/8/2019

"The Flesh Profiteth Nothing!" John 6:63
Whew, chile, he said you a whole snack. You know you got it going on, Perfect teeth and hour glass figure to boot.
This scripture "The Flesh Profiteth Nothing" took on a whole new meaning for me over 15 years ago.

I was just reading and hearing all the publicity of a famous actress known as the most beautiful woman in the world getting played time and time again by different men but the same story. I said to my 20 year old self, "girl, don't harass yourself trying to be all picture perfect and a no good man ain't going to do right anyhow."

That's right, no matter how pretty you are if the guy you are dating is a jerk, he will still mistreat you. God's word is true both now and forever, the flesh...our pretty faces in the end will not achieve anything great just by being pretty. This flesh is just a shell, we have to be about more, and we have to accept into our lives Men with character, periodt.

So, yes, it's okay to look nice, and I believe in looking your best. At the same time, if your hair is not perfect, you should still feel beautiful if you are clothe in the beauty of kindness and a gentle spirit. Because if a male is just drawn to you for the physical, it will not last.

I challenge you to have days of no make-up and feel 100% comfortable in your own skin, and let your inner beauty add the finishing touches. Above all Love God and Love Yourself by choosing men who drip with the real....a heart of gold that can Love You Like Christ Loves the Church!

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Purity Prayer For Our Nation

4/7/2019

Dear God, I pray for our nation that a spirit of purity would invade our homes, the school house, the government, the church house, and everywhere our feet will go. In this day and time where sex is treated like a piece of candy, we need Purity more than ever. Father God, I know that Purity starts with having YOU. We cannot live a life worthy of YOU without YOU. Praying Salvation and Deliverance for our household and nation in the name of Christ Jesus.
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YOU ARE WORTH THE WAIT! Weekly Reminder

1/15/2019

Hello Ladies,
just wanting to remind you that you are a rare Gem, a Diamond, and Yes, You are worth the wait.

Don't get weary in the waiting. Rushing could cost you a happy marriage and land you with a fool.
During this time of waiting, pray earnestly and sincerely for God to give you His Best at the perfect time.

Hun(tay), just because they are in church, speaking in tongues, and leading the choir, unfortunately don't mean a thing. They could actually be the "Devil's cousin." And I'm not playing.

When you see those warning signs, please hit those brakes. Consult with a true friend and even some anonymous Godly strangers who will give you Godly advice.

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Ladies, God is with you and for you. Keep Declaring, Believing and Preparing to Receive God's Best In Every Area Of Your Life!

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Prayer Declaration For The Husband God Got for You!

12/30/2018

Dear God,
Thank you for a Faithful Handsome Husband who loves YOU and loves Me with Your Agape love!
Thank You that my husband and I have a heavenly marriage right here on earth Full of the good things from above!
We both delight ourselves in YOU and Our Marriage reflects your Glory for YOU are the author and finisher of our story.
We Give All the Glory, Praise and Adoration that's due to Your Holy Name
Which Enables Us to love each other unconditionally and we protect our holy matrimony.
We will give to none other what should only be shared between us as husband and wife.
I thank you that you have prepared my husband and I to grow together in You and With Each Other.
Thank You that the beauty of all you designed for my life and marriage is Manifesting Now in the mighty name of Christ Jesus!
Amen and Amen!

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When Lord When: The Wait For Your King

12/15/2018

When Lord When!!!
I'm tired of waiting.
It's Not going to happen, is it?
Everybody's getting married but me!
(Bring those thoughts under subjection and declare: I have the Mind of Christ and I will have the life God desires for me)

When you are waiting and it's getting later and later with every birthday, desperation, hopelessness tries to kick-in...But Don't Let It...GOD is Faithful, and He will fulfill the Promise and Give You His Best.

So What Do You Do when it seems you are at a roadblock and "Mr" Right seems out of sight.
1. Pray to God to give you contentment and peace
2. Examine your heart: why do I want to get married
3. Be honest and ask yourself "Am I proactively preparing myself to enter marriage by already being a "Wife To Christ"
4. After examination, Put the Plan in Action to be the "Best You" for God as a Bride of Christ!
5. Now "Pray and Fast" that every hindrance to your destiny be moved in the Name of Christ Jesus!!!

What keeps you encouraged as you "Wait For God's Best" in every area of your life?

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